Your Value: HOW do you measure it?
And WHO keeps YOUR calculator?
Tim Fargo – “If you want to improve your self-worth, stop giving other people the calculator.”
Today, I discovered this quote from Tim Fargo, and I felt it’s a great subject to speak about, being a part of a huge issue in peoples’ life: “Keeping Score.”
Yes, they keep score for what they “GIVE” and “RECEIVE” to be “FAIR”!
But WHO is THE JUDGE to decide what is fair or not?
Would life be more SIMPLE, FREE, and HAPPY if we would just FEEL the emotions when we GIVE with an open heart?
And to ACCEPT to receive what life offers to us?
Without EXPECTING, so we can keep score to be fair?
Please, don’t take MY RIGHT to BE HAPPY when I share with YOU!
Just think for a minute.
HOW do you FEEL when someone REFUSE YOUR GIFT?
Please, think about it!
Now let’s go back to Your Value.
Well, do you know YOUR REAL VALUE?
Think about it. How is it?
- Is it Big? Or Small?
- Is it Overvalued?
- Or Undervalued?
- Is it … you name it?
But COMPARED to WHAT?
Or with WHO?
It is so RELATIVE to compare things that are not comparable!
And HOW did you do the “math”?
What is YOUR FORMULA?
Even Google didn’t find a formula for self-worth!
And are you SURE you didn’t “miss” some “things”?
But HOW could you REMEMBER everything if you didn’t keep score?
Then, WHO keeps YOUR calculator?
To whom did you give the authority to judge your value?
For me, it was a time when I “dropped it” to others.
But life forced me to learn to keep it with both hands, whatever the value.
And I am in “peace” since then.
Do you want to know my formula?
My self-worth is my character and unique values that I can control!
I AM MY VALUE!
AND I CHOOSE WHO I AM!
As Marcus Iulius Cicero said:
“You will be as much value to others as you have been to yourself.”
BTW, there are “about 2,410,000,000 results (0.69 seconds)”quotes about self-worth on Google!
Can you imagine how long it takes just to read them?
Now, if you are ready to discover YOUR REAL VALUE instead of letting others label you, reach out to me.
I would love to guide you to CHOOSE WHO YOU REALLY ARE!
And it’s a PROMISE to YOU that you can enjoy the FREEDOM of living the life YOU WANT!